Psychological Corollary
It is important to set realistic goals - goals that can be accomplished with reasonable effort.
Lesson Objective
Students will label goals as realistic or unrealistic. For example, people who have limited funds and lack map-reading skills would find a costly camping trip unrealistic.
Social Behaviors
This lesson shows students that successful people:
- negotiate unrealistic goals
- Identify and analyze their own problems
- Explain their problems
- Are willing to compromise
Other Vocabulary
- Gear
- Afford
- Hiking boots
Suggested Lesson Plans
Introduction
- Write the word realistic on the board. Have students define, in their own words, what it means to be realistic (e.g., manageable, possible, within your capabilities, achievable).
- Introduce vocabulary.
Group Use of Student Workbook
- Ask students to read the play, "Wilderness Weekend" and complete and discuss the exercises.
- Discuss how the girls negotiated to reach a compromise.
Behavior Development Activity
- Tell students to think of a time when they were asked to do something that they thought was unrealistic or too hard for them. Have students brainstorm a list of unrealistic requests (e.g., homework too hard and too much work to do at home).
- Have students suggest how they might negotiate to make the request/goal more realistic (e.g., get help, have time to do it extended, or change the request).
- Have students choose an unrealistic request from the list and roleplay negotiating to make it more realistic.
Review
- Ask students to identify two reasons why a person should set goals that can be accomplished with reasonable effort (e.g., to avoid failure and to avoid frustration).
Return to: Lesson 2: Guess Who’s Going to Dinner?
Go to: Lesson 4: -Or Else