- One way to ACT COOL is to "Explain Your Side," in a calm voice, especially when the criticism is incorrect or unfair.
- When you "Explain Your Side," ask the person to talk with you in private, and:
- Express an interest in working things out.
- Calmly explain why the criticism is unfair.
- Suggest a way to avoid the problem (and the criticism) from arising again.
- Try not to take unfair criticism personally. Rather, see it as a mistake in judgment.
Independent Viewing of Video
Encourage students to view the video independently. You may also suggest that the students take the video home to teach their families the BeCool strategy. Have students practice the calming techniques along with the characters in the video.
Parent Education/Involvement
Consider showing the video and discussing the BeCool strategy at parent meetings, open houses, PTA meetings, etc.
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